Time and again I find myself coming back to Luther because, even though he shoots his mouth off from time to time, you almost always come away with theological or practical wisdom you needed to hear. Take this gem of a quote on prayer:
It is impossible that God should not hear the prayers which with faith are made in Christ, though he give not according to the measure, manner, and time we dictate, for he will not be tied. In such sort dealt God with the mother of St Augustine; she prayed to God that her son might be converted, but as yet it would not be; then she ran to the learned, entreating them to persuade and advise him thereunto. She propounded unto him a marriage with a Christian virgin, that thereby he might be drawn and brought to the Christian faith, but all would not do as yet. But when our Lord God came thereto, he came to purpose, and made of him such an Augustine, that he became a great light to the church. St James says: “Pray one for another, for the prayer of the righteous availeth much.” Prayer is a powerful thing, for God has bound and tied himself thereunto. -Martin Luther, Table Talk
Luther clearly lays out a couple of key points we need to remember to keep straight for the sake of our theology and just general spiritual life.
God is God. When you pray you’re making a request of your Lord, not commanding a servant. We often-times think about God and prayer as if he were our butler, like a divine Alfred (Batman’s butler/mentor) who manages to be very resourceful in helping us fulfill our missions out in the world. In fact, the situation is quite the opposite. God is equipping and aiding us in being his servants, doing his will. You are not Batman. You are not the hero of your story–God is. If we don’t get this straight, we end up thinking God failed us when it turns out he’s simply decided in his infinite wisdom that the “measure, manner, and time we dictate” are not the way that he wants to do things. God is not in your employ. He is not someone to be fired or reprimanded. He is not waiting for your year-end performance review. He really does know what he’s doing.
- God Listens. At the same time, God really does listen to prayers offered up through Jesus Christ. (John 14:13; 16:23) Whatever else we think about predestination and foreknowledge, we are told that God listens to our prayers for Christ’s sake. He has “bound” himself in that way, through his promises in Jesus. So many of us do not pray because we think God will not hear us. We think we’re too guilty, too small, too silly, too insignificant. Jesus reassures us that whatever might be true of us, in Christ, we are beloved of the Father and he will always hear us. (John 14:21) He is a God who keeps his promises, even if not always in the way that we expect them.
Luther tells us to keep these two truths in mind as we approach prayer. Between them we’re able to approach the God of the universe with the bold humility of faith–and that’s the goal isn’t it?
Soli Deo Gloria
I feel like I’m strangely more Calvinist than you are on this question. I tend to think of prayer as not changing the will of God so much as narrating what needs to happen in such a way that God is glorified when it happens and trusting that it wasn’t right if it doesn’t happen. When I pray for another person’s healing, I pray that God would reveal to us a sign of His power in order that we would be able to testify. Usually I just pray because I want to be conformed to God’s will. Most of what I pray for is forgiveness and refinement. And that anyone who dishonors God’s name would be exposed. But I should probably take intercessory prayer more seriously.
Apparently we’re reading each other’s blogs at the same time. I don’t disagree with what you’re praying. I’ve prayed the same thing time and again and I think most people’s prayer lives would be greatly-improved if that attitude were at the forefront. I think lately I’ve just been re-reminded that God tells us to pray for what’s on our hearts. Yes, prayer reshapes what is on our hearts, but still, we are to make our real requests known to God (Phil 4:6), trusting that he’ll get it right. He knows anyways. Might as well be honest.
Good point. We can’t forget that He’s our abba.