Me
Derek Rishmawy
I'm the Director of College and Young Adult ministries at Trinity United Presbyterian Church. (Think non-ordained college pastor). I'm the husband of a very pretty lady named McKenna. I got my B.A. in Philosophy at UCI and my M.A. in Theological Studies (Biblical Studies) at APU. I love Jesus and more importantly Jesus loves me. Throw in too many books, coffee, craft beer, loud music and a picture starts to emerge. Also, sometimes Christ and Pop Culture lets me say things on their site.
View Full Profile →
Stuff I Say At Random
- Just realized the new #SigurRos could be just as misogynistic and self-absorbed as #Yeezus but I can't know because I don't understand Jonsi 8 hours ago
- @TheAlanNoble @StuffCCLikes I bet you Stevens could write a song that would put both your hearts at ease bring this feud to an end. 10 hours ago
- I want to write a book entitled "The Myth of the Myth of Redemptive Violence." 10 hours ago
- Are Protestants allowed to read the Church Fathers? Sure. Calvin shows you how. wp.me/p2DWnH-1aB 15 hours ago
- @JimGaffigan Well, if you're doing it right, yes, that's a possibility. 16 hours ago
- @zhoag RT @joethorn 3m An Alternative to the TGC and T4G Statements about SGM j.mp/11MOsi3 16 hours ago
- RT @joethorn: An Alternative to the TGC and T4G Statements about SGM j.mp/11MOsi3 16 hours ago
People I Read
- Think Theology
- Pastor-Theologian
- SPMcleish's Weblog
- Alastair's Adversaria
- Peter Leithart
- City of God
- Christ and Pop Culture
- Ross Douthat
- Mere Orthodoxy | Christianity, Politics, and Culture
- An Urban Monk's Notebook
- thebrightblush
- Challies Dot Com - Informing the Reforming
- Comments for Philosophical Fragments
- The Gospel Coalition Blog
- White Horse Inn Blog
- Comments for The Scriptorium
- Comments for Euangelion
- Jesus Creed
- Mercy not Sacrifice
- Musings of a Hardlining Moderate
Categories
- apologetics
- Bible
- biblical studies
- blogging
- book review
- Calvin
- Christ and Pop Culture
- cultural commentary
- devotional literature
- discipleship
- epistemology
- ethics
- evangelism
- gospel
- hermeneutics
- history
- humor
- Martin Luther
- ministry
- music
- new testament
- old testament
- personal narrative
- philosophy
- politics
- preaching
- review
- spirituality
- theology
- trinity
- Uncategorized
- violence
- writing

I was wondering if you could write something or give me some advice about what to do right know. I love God but I feel like I’m stuck in a rut in my faith and that I haven’t felt the presence of my Savior in a while. Do you have any tangible suggestions for how I can refresh and renew my relationship with Christ, even with a busy schedule?
Hey Diana, I might write something in the future on that because it’s a good question. To start though, I’d probably ask what your spiritual life looks like right now. Really, a lot of things are unique to you that general advice won’t hit. Still, I’ll give it a quick shot:
There are at least 3 reasons you could be feeling dry, or a bit distant: you, the devil, or God’s hand. Now, those three aren’t totally unrelated, but still sometimes it’s helpful to think them out.
You — Let’s be honest, sometimes it’s us. We let some kind of persistent sin that wounds our conscience in our life which would then make us feel distant from God. Or, sometimes the general rush and busyness itself is a lack of Sabbath that is killing our spiritual life. Sometimes to repent is just to cut some things out.
Also, let’s be honest, there are just rhythms to the spiritual life. Just like any relationship, there are times when you’re super-close and excited, and other times when you’re just there and that’s okay. You don’t want to stay there, but you just have to know that all Christians walk through this in different parts of their life.
The Devil- I don’t talk about spiritual warfare much, but it’s there. The saints are often “sore tempted and tried” and our enemy would love to attack our consciences and make us feel distant.
God — Old saints have talked about the dark nights of the soul when it seems that God has removed his hand, or makes his presence less felt for various reasons. The Psalms show tons of evidence of this. In fact, one reason that he allows this sometimes is that we might long after him, realize how much we need him and seek him all the further.
Where does that leave you? Well, not really knowing your situation I can only give pretty general advice, but here are a few steps you might take:
1. Grab coffee with a good, spiritual friend and talk through your life right now. If there’s any sin, confess it and repent. I mean, it totally might not be, but sometimes it’s there. Otherwise, ask them for encouragement and prayer. Not just general “I will pray for you” prayer, but prayer right then and there. Pray for yourself, against spiritual warfare, and for the Spirit to work in you. Pray that one constantly and that your heart would be dwelling on the Gospel. t.
2. Look at your schedule and edit. Sometimes it seems impossible. There’s no way you could ever trim it down, it appears. Sometimes the season is actually like that. But most of the time there is at least one thing that I think of as necessary that could be dropped or toned back. Cut it and replace it with rest, but meditative rest in God. (Prayer, scripture, worship, etc.)
3. I don’t know if you drive around a lot or have time to listen to podcasts, but I get a lot of encouragement and spiritual strength from sermons that point me to the Gospel. I recommend these free Tim Keller sermons to download and listen in an mp3 player or just at work or something. http://sermons2.redeemer.com/redeemer-free-sermon-resource
4. Of course, there is adding a daily devotional time, seriously, 10-15 minutes into your rhythm. It doesn’t work immediately, but that constant stream of sitting, praying, reading a passage of scripture and just meditating on it for a bit can do serious work on your heart over time. Meditate constantly throughout the day on the Cross, the Resurrection, and the fact that you’ve been united to Christ. Pick something that you do every day a lot and tell yourself that every time you do that thing, (getting in your car, washing your hands, whatever) you’re going to quickly pray and remember some gift of the gospel (forgiveness, grace, righteousness, acceptance, love, beauty, future hope, the church, a new family, etc.).
5. I don’t know how your church life is, but if you haven’t been, the corporate worship with the people of God and the sacraments and usual means of grace are there for a reason.
I don’t know if this helps, but these are some things off the top of my head without knowing your personal situation. I pray this helps. Thanks for stopping by Diana.